• UNIT 12: Gender and Society

    Key unit competence: To be able to relate or interact effectively with
    families, peers at school and community

    Introduction

    The issues of gender, gender roles, gender equality and equity have recently
    been in the limelight across the world. In this unit, we will study how all the

    above gender-related issues relate to the society.

    12.1 Gender equality and equity

    Activity 1

    1. Take two minutes to individually think of what gender and society
    mean. Write your thoughts and then share them with your partner.
    2. If you were asked to put people in your community into groups, how
    would you categorise them?
    From your class discussions you have discovered that people tend to group
    themselves based on gender, sexuality, social class, religious convictions or
    even on tribal and racial basis. In this unit we will concentrate on gender

    equality, gender roles and families.

    Activity 2

    1. Discuss the possible meanings for the terms equality and equity. Use
    text books and dictionaries.
    2. Decide in your groups whether equality and equity are evident in your
    society.
    3. Discuss whether you think human beings need equality.
    Gender refers to the social understanding of being male or female. It goes
    beyond the biological meaning to a cultural meaning.
    Gender equality means that women and men as well as girls and boys
    enjoy the same rights, resources, opportunities and protection.
    Gender equity is the process of avoiding discrimination on the basis of
    sex (male/ female). This can be by engaging both sexes in decision making,
    allocating resources equally and providing equal opportunities.
    In Rwanda, the Gender Monitoring Office which is a government body that
    ensures that all national activities are gender equitable including elections.
    Several organisations also work towards promoting positive masculinity
    which encourages men to be loving, caring fathers and partners who are
    supportive of gender equality and women’s empowerment.
    Gender equality means that each gender play roles of equal importance to
    the society. It is also important to note that biological characteristics relate
    the female gender to particular roles such as nursing infants as they have the
    maternal ability to do so.
    On the other hand, the masculinity of the male gender places them at a
    better position to carry out the more demanding manual jobs. This does not
    limit the women to domestic chores and neither does it prohibit men from
    carrying out domestic activities such as cooking. Equal opportunities such as
    education and resources enable girls, boys, men and women to make choices
    on what to do in life. For example, today there are many chefs who are men
    and architects who are women.
    Traditionally in Rwanda, activities such as drumming were left for men, but
    today, teams of girls drum with strength and skill. Fathers are encouraging
    daughters to do engineering and other courses that were perceived to be
    men’s domain. Several women, for instance, have joined the army.
    Gender complementarity is therefore the aspect of making both males
    and females carry out roles that support each other. This is because one

    gender cannot make a society. Both complement each other.

    How to promote gender equality

    Activity 3

    1. Discuss ways of promoting gender equality.
    2. Explain why it is important for the government to promote gender
    equality
    your discussions you have no doubt learnt that equality is necessary
    for all of us. Equality can be taught and practised starting from the school
    environment by creating a positive learning environment in which both boys
    and girls have positive role models and positive messages about responsibility.
    Gender equality in Rwanda has greatly improved. This is evident in the
    following areas:-
    • More girls are enrolled in school as opposed to the past when mostly
    boys went to school.
    • Women can access loans to start businesses and therefore become more
    self reliant.
    • Today, women are taking up high-end jobs that were dominated by the
    men. Instead of serving as personal assistants and secretaries, they are
    occupying managerial offices just as the male counterparts.
    • Laws are being put in place to allow the female gender to inherit property
    just in the same way the males are heirs.
    • Rwanda has maintained gender equality in terms of leadership as
    seen in the number of female leaders today. The number of female
    parliamentarians is 64%. This means that the majority are women.
    • Rape has been acknowledged as a very serious offence; there are heavily
    jail sentences for perpetrators.
    • Women have been given the right to choose whether to pool assets
    together with the husband or to keep them separate.
    Men, women, boys and girls should be encouraged to explore and understand
    how gender equality will benefit their families and communities. This can also
    help individuals understand their roles and place in the family and society.
    Good role models, both men and women have a big role to play in
    teaching and encouraging the different gender groups to develop their own
    responsibilities. A change in the way children are brought up is necessary.
    We should eliminate stereotypical influences on the child. This can be done
    by effecting change in the way we view: class and ethnicity, social norms
    about women and men, boys and girls –as well as their, capabilities, security,
    opportunities, empowerment and freedom. After the 1994 genocide against
    the Tutsi, the Rwandan people had an opportunity to experience women
    leadership. Women who make up a majority of those who survived acted
    as judges in Gachecha courts and played great roles in putting the country
    in order. Since then, the gender stereotypes has slowly faded and gender
    equality has played a major role in the growth of Rwanda as a nation.
    Gender equality can be promoted in schools, families and work places. The
    following are some of the ways in which gender equality can be promoted.
    1. Ensure equal pay and fair representation of men and women at all levels:
    male teachers assistants; female head teachers and other senior levels.
    2. Develop initiatives that promote education for all. This will facilitate
    equality in opportunities later in life. In Rwanda for instance, there is a
    compulsory education programme that has put boys and girls in primary
    and secondary schools in equal numbers.
    3. Challenge the existing stereotypes, that is, images that portray either
    gender in a certain way.
    4. Have clear and defined procedures for identifying and reporting sexual
    harassment for both sexes. The Rwandan government has provided
    hotlines for the police as a way of curbing rape cases. Sexual harassment
    is highly punished in Rwanda. Laws have been put in place to stop gender

    violence.

    Exercise 1

    State the meaning of gender, gender equality and equity.
    12.2 Benefits of gender equality and complementarity
    Activity 4
    Debate on the following motion:
    A gender balanced society is better than a gender imbalanced society.
    Discuss the main points raised by each side after the debate
    There are benefits when gender equality and complementarity is exercised.

    These benefits are given below:

    1. When women are presented with equal opportunities as men, they are
    able to acquire education as opposed to when they do not enjoy gender
    equality.
    2. Career progression for women becomes easier when there is gender
    equality and complementarity.
    3. Women are able to enjoy financial independence and new roles in society
    when gender equity is put in practice.
    4. When women are given the same opportunities as men, there is human
    development in the society.
    5. When all members of the society have the opportunity to earn, there is
    likely to be improved economic growth.
    6. When women get equal opportunity as men, they also enjoy freedom,
    choice and happiness.
    7. Gender equality improves economic and social conditions for everyone.
    When both parents are earning, families are healthier and better fed. Their
    income, savings and investments go up. This extends to the community
    and the entire nation.
    8. When both girls and boys live free from rigid stereotypes that limit their
    potential, they are able to exploit their full potential in a way that benefits
    themselves and the society they live in.
    9. In organisations and institutions where there is gender balance, there is
    likely to be better decision-making and more effective implementation of
    these decisions as everyone is involved in decision and therefore own the

    decisions made.

    Exercise 2

    Highlight the benefits of gender equality and complementarity.

    12.3 Gender roles and gender stereotypes

    Activity 5

    Act out the following dialogue and answer the questions that follow.
    Interchange the roles and let mother play the role of father and Jacob’s
    sister play the role of Jacob and vice versa.
    Father: (Arriving home from work carrying a newspaper) How are you
    Jacob?
    Jacob: (watching TV) Am fine dad.
    Father: Where is your sister? I need a cup of tea.
    Jacob: She is washing the utensils.
    Father: How about your mother?
    Jacob: She is picking vegetables from the garden.

    Father: Can you make a cup of tea for me?

    12.3.1 Gender roles

    The World Health Organisation (WHO) defines gender roles as socially
    constructed roles, behaviours, activities and attributes that a given society
    considers appropriate for men and women. Simply put, they are the roles that
    men and women are expected to occupy based on their sex.
    Traditionally, many Western societies have believed that women are more
    nurturing than men. Therefore, the traditional view of the feminine gender
    role prescribes that women should behave in ways that are nurturing. One way
    that a woman might engage in the traditional feminine gender role would be
    to nurture her family by working full-time within the home rather than taking
    employment outside of the home. Men, on the other hand, are presumed
    by traditional views of gender roles to be leaders. Them traditional view
    of the masculine gender role, therefore, suggests that men should be the
    heads of their households by providing financially for the family and making

    important family decisions.

    Activity 6

    Explain the gender roles in the following pictures

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    12.3.2 Gender stereotypes

    Gender stereotypes are over-generalisations about the characteristics of
    an entire group based on gender. A man might say women aren’t meant
    for combat, while a woman might say men do nothing but watch sports.
    Stereotypes are not always necessarily true because they come from making
    general conclusions about a group of people based on mere assumptions.
    These general conclusions cannot be true for all people because individuals
    have different desires, feelings and thoughts. Both the female gender and

    the male gender have been stereotyped in the society. The following are

    examples of gender stereotypes:

    1. Women are rational beings.
    2. Men are tough and protective.
    3. Men are neither neat nor and clean.
    4. Women make good secretaries and teachers.
    5. They are also viewed as fragile and emotional, caring and more appropriate
    for jobs like nursing.
    These stereotypes begin right from childhood once the sex of a child is known.
    The newborn is welcomed in a very stereotyped setting that’s decorated with
    items suggesting how he/she ought to grow. Girls are made to love dolls and
    take care of them as women take care of children while boys are bought car
    toys and video games. While growing, they are assigned roles in the same
    way. Boys can watch TV while girls do all the cleaning and cooking, unless
    there is a fence to trim. Boys are also encouraged to do outdoor sports such
    as bicycle riding and hiking. These stereotypes grow with children and are

    passed on to generations.

    12.3.3 Why are stereotypes simple assumptions?

    Stereotypes are mere assumptions because as discussed earlier, individuals
    have different desires, feelings and thoughts. It would therefore be untrue to
    say that all men are leaders and all women are submissive because there are
    women leaders. Some women are also doing well in the technical careers such
    as pilots, mechanics and so forth, in the same way men are growing interest

    in cosmetics industry, hairdressing and others are chefs in restaurants.

    Exercise 3

    Identify various gender roles and gender stereotypes in your community.

    12.4 Impact of gender stereotypes on individuals, families

    and society

    Activity 7

    Case study

    One day, Mary’s mother came home and found the house in a mess.
    Dirty dishes were left
    don the dining table.
    The floor was dirty
    and the basket was
    full of dirty clothes.
    Mary was feeling
    unwell and was lying
    on the sofa while
    her brother was
    playing his video
    game. What was the
    best thing for Mary’s

    mother to do?

    Gender stereotypes portray teaching or serving in a hotel as female careers
    while higher medical professions are perceived to be male careers. From the
    discussion above, however, you realise that none of these careers belong
    only to men or women. Holding on to these beliefs has very negative impacts
    on individuals, families and the society at large. For example, the assumption
    that women are more emotional than rational is demeaning to the female
    gender and makes them look inferior to the male gender. This can lead to
    disrespect in the family and consequently break the harmony that should be
    in a family
    Gender stereotypes portray teaching or serving in a hotel as female careers
    while higher medical professions are perceived to be male careers. From the
    discussion above, however, you realise that none of these careers belong
    only to men or women. Holding on to these beliefs has very negative impacts
    on individuals, families and the society at large. For example, the assumption
    that women are more emotional than rational is demeaning to the female
    gender and makes them look inferior to the male gender. This can lead to
    disrespect in the family and consequently break the harmony that should be

    in a family.

    The following are the effects of gender stereotypes on individuals, family and

    society:

    1. It can cause psychological distress to an individual. For example, where
    a boy is told that he should not cry in public, he is likely to suppress
    his emotions to prove his masculinity yet undergo a lot of emotional
    suffering.
    2. It can easily reduce an individual’s self-esteem. When women are viewed
    as passive members of the family who must always be submissive and have
    no place in decision-making, their sense of value is ideally diminished.
    They may end up feeling unwanted yet they are a central part of the
    society in real sense and can make great leaders.
    3. Stereotyping can prevent individuals from pursuing their dreams such as
    a person’s career of interest. This denies such a person the opportunity
    to live a fulfilling life. For example, a female student may have interest
    in a mechanical job, but the fear of not meeting the expectations of the
    society may hold her from pursuing her dream career hence not achieving
    her full potential.
    4. It can be used as a basis for discrimination. For example, this can happen
    in the family when sharing household chores. The girl child, for example,
    may be overwhelmed with responsibilities such as preparing meals,
    cleaning, laundry and buying grocery while her male siblings engage in
    fun activities.
    5. It can lead to subordination of one gender in society. For example, in the
    earlier days, women were not allowed to vote. This denied them of the
    right to elect leaders of their choice.
    6. It can bring confusion and disagreement in the family about whose
    responsibility it is to provide for the family. Though any member of the
    family can be the breadwinner depending on the situation, stereotyping
    that presumes that the man should fend for the family can be detrimental
    when the man in the family is not able to earn for one reason or another.
    He may feel incapable of doing his duty even when he is not to blame.
    This can also have a negative impact on the family because the idea that
    a woman should not fend for the family is a hindrance to improving the
    living standards of the family as the income comes from one source.

    Exercise 4

    1. Explain the impact of gender stereotypes on individuals, families and
    society.

    2. Write an essay on gender issues in the society today.

    12.5 Unit summary

    Gender - the social understanding of being male or female.
    Gender equality – a situation where women, men, girls and boys enjoy the
    same rights, resources, opportunities and protection.
    Gender equity - the process of avoiding discrimination on the basis of sex
    (male/ female).
    Gender complementarity - the aspect of making both males and females
    carry out roles that support or complement each other.
    Gender roles - socially constructed roles, behaviours, activities and attributes
    that a given society considers appropriate for men and women.
    Gender stereotypes - over-generalisations about the characteristics of an
    entire group based on gender.

    Benefits of gender equality and complementarity

    1. When women are presented with equal opportunities as men, they are
    able to acquire education as opposed to when they do not enjoy gender
    equality.
    2. Career progression for women becomes easier when there is gender
    equality and complementarity.
    3. Women are able to enjoy financial independence and new roles in
    society when gender equity is put in practice.
    4. When women are given the same opportunities as men, there is human
    development in the society.
    5. When all members of the society have the opportunity to earn, there is
    likely to be improved economic growth.
    6. When women get equal opportunity as men, they also enjoy freedom,
    choice and happiness.
    7. Gender equality improves economic and social conditions for everyone.
    8. When both girls and boys live free from rigid stereotypes that limit
    their potential, they are able to exploit their full potential in a way that
    benefi ts themselves and the society they live in.
    9. In organisations and institutions where there is gender balance, there is
    likely to be better decision-making and more effective implementation
    of these decisions as everyone is involved in decision and therefore

    own the decisions made

    Impact of gender stereotypes on individuals, families and society

    1. It can cause psychological distress to an individual.
    2. It can easily reduce an individual’s self-esteem.
    3. Stereotyping can prevent individuals from pursuing their dreams such
    as a person’s career of interest.
    4. It can be used as a basis for discrimination
    5. It can lead to subordination of one gender in society.
    6. It can bring confusion and disagreement in the family about whose

    responsibility it is to provide for the family.

    12.6 Test your competence

    Read the case study below then answer the questions that follow.

    Rose was working in an institution that took care of children. Though she
    was more learned than most of her male counterparts, she was always given
    the responsibilities of taking care of children and feeding them. Whenever an
    opportunity arose for promotion, she was always overlooked with a simple

    explanation, ‘You are a woman’. This hurt Rose a lot.

    Questions

    1. Identify any gender issues in this story.
    2. What gender roles do you find in this story?
    3. Explain the gender stereotype seen Rose’s case.
    4. Suggest possible solutions to the challenges Rose was facing at her

    work.

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