• UNIT 3 GENDER AND SOCIETY

    Key Unit Competence:
    To be able to relate/interact effectively with families, peers at school and
    community.
    Introductory activity
    Discuss different ways people interact effectively in families and
    community.
    3.1: Gender equality and equity
    Learning activity 3.1

    Using various resources, search about the following concepts:
    the meaning of gender, gender equality and equity and prepare

    presentation.

    • Definition of the concept of gender, gender equality and Gender equity
    Gender: Basing on the studies carried out by Connell, R. (2002); Fine, C. (2010);
    Pringle, R. (1992); Rahman. M. and Jackson, S. (2010); Connell, R.W. (2012)
    and corroborated later by Fletcher, G. (2015), gender is defined as a process
    of judgement and value (a social hierarchy) related to stereotypes and norms
    of what it is to be masculine or feminine, regardless of your born sex category.
    Here ‘Masculine’ and ‘feminine’ categorizations of gender are assessments or
    judgements that can be applied to a person regardless of the sex assigned to
    them at birth. Gender, unlike sex, is not rooted in biological difference but in
    socially constructed norms and expectations.
    Gender refers to the social understanding of being male or female. It goes
    beyond the biological meaning to a cultural meaning. Many other authors have
    also defined the concept of gender in the following ways:
    According to UNESCO (2015), gender refers to the socially constructed relations
    between men and women. Societies decide which resources men and women
    can access jointly or separately, the work they can perform, the clothes they
    wear, and the knowledge they are allowed to acquire, as well as how they acquire
    and use it. Gender is about relationships that may change over time and place.
    While sex tends to be fixed, gender is amenable to change over time depending
    on circumstances. Gender relations between men and women may vary between
    classes, races and cultures. Institutions may have cultures that determine the
    executive, administrative and service positions of men and women. Students’
    specializations are also being shaped by gender.
    Gender equality: means that women and men as well as girls and boys enjoy the
    same rights, resources, opportunities and protection
    Gender equity: According to UNESCO (2015), gender equality in education means
    ensuring that female and male learners are treated equally, have equal access
    to learning opportunities and benefit from education equally. They become
    empowered and can fulfill their potential so that they may contribute to and
    benefit from social, cultural, political and economic development equally. Special
    treatment/action can be taken to reverse the historical and social disadvantages
    that prevent female and male learners from accessing and benefiting from
    education on equal grounds.
    Education is a human right and an essential tool for achieving the goals of
    equality, development and peace. Education enables girls and boys, women and
    men to participate in social, economic and political life and is a foundation for
    the development of a democratic society (SADE, 2011). Gender equality is the
    process of avoiding discrimination on the basis of sex (male/ female). This can
    be by engaging both sexes in decision making, allocating resources equally and
    providing equal opportunities.
    Gender equality means that each gender plays roles of equal importance to the
    society. It is also important to note that biological characteristics relate the female
    gender to particular roles such as nursing infants as they have the maternal
    ability to do so.
    On the other hand, the masculinity of the male gender places them at a better
    position to carry out the more demanding manual jobs. This does not limit the
    women to domestic chores and neither does it prohibit men from carrying out
    domestic activities such as cooking. Equal opportunities such as education and
    resources enable girls, boys, men and women to make choices on what to do in
    life. For example, today there are many chefs who are men and architects who
    are women.
    Traditionally in Rwanda, activities such as drumming were left for men, but today,
    teams of girl’s drum with strength and skill. Fathers are encouraging daughters
    to do engineering and other courses that were perceived to be men’s domain.

    Several women, for instance, have joined the arm.

    Gender complementarity
    I learned a new phrase: “gender complementarity”. What does it mean? Well,
    “complementarity” is “The state or quality of being complementary”. so what
    in the world does that mean?» Well, obviously it›s when you say nice things
    about people. «Complementary as opposed to «complimentary” means
    “completing” (in short). Presence B has those qualities and these shortcomings.
    Put them together and what do you get? A complete working model. The
    idea, then, behind gender complementarity is that men have these qualities
    and those short comings while women have those qualities and these short
    comings. Put them together and you›ve got a great working model. Apart,
    and you might hear, «It is not good for Man to be alone» or something like it.
    Perhaps you’ve heard this before. “Children do best growing up in a home with
    a mother and a father.” Now, I dare you ... toss that grenade out in an open
    forum and see what happens in the fallout. You see why, I assume.If we agree
    that «mother and father» are best for kids, then what do we do with «mother
    and mother» or «father and father» kids? You can likely see fairly quickly
    that the idea of same-sex couples raising children becomes questionable.
    Of course, it will be instantly repudiated. But have you ever looked at the
    repudiation? Here are the types of responses you will see. “Married couples are
    no better than other family forms at raising children.” (An argument in a vacuum.)
    “Children do best in a family where the adult relationship is steady, stable and
    loving.” ((One of the all-time favorites) “Abuse is rampant in the traditional family.”
    (Similar to and related to the previous. Gender complementarity is the aspect of
    making both males and females carry out roles that support each other. This is

    because one gender cannot make a society. Both complement each other.

    Application activity: 3.1
    Explain different ways Rwanda has promoted gender equality.
    3.2 Benefits of gender equality and complementarity
    Learning activity: 3.2

    Discuss the importance of complementarity in socio-economic
    development.
    There are benefits when gender equality and complementarity is exercised.
    These benefits are given below:

    a) When women are presented with equal opportunities as men, they are
    able to acquire education as opposed to when they do not enjoy gender

    equality.

    b) Career progression for women becomes easier when there is gender
    equality and complementarity.
    c) Women are able to enjoy financial independence and new roles in society
    when gender equity is put in practice.
    d) When women are given the same opportunities as men, there is human
    development in the society.
    e) When all members of the society have the opportunity to earn, there is
    likely to be improved economic growth.
    f) When women get equal opportunity as men, they also enjoy freedom,
    choice and happiness.
    g) Gender equality improves economic and social conditions for everyone.
    When both parents are earning, families are healthier and better fed. Their
    income, savings and investments go up. This extends to the community
    and the entire nation.
    h) When both girls and boys live free from rigid stereotypes that limit their
    potential, they are able to exploit their full potential in a way that benefits
    themselves and the society they live in.
    i) In organizations and institutions where there is gender balance, there is
    likely to be better decision-making and more effective implementation of
    these decisions as everyone is involved in decision and therefore own the
    decisions made.
    Application activity 3.2
    Identify the benefits of gender equality and complementarity in society
    3.3. Gender roles

    Learning activity 3.3

    Observe the following pictures and answer the following picture


    The World Health Organisation (WHO) defines gender roles as socially
    constructed roles, behaviours, activities and attributes that a given society
    considers appropriate for men and women. Simply put, they are the roles that
    men and women are expected to occupy based on their sex.
    Traditionally, many Western societies have believed that women are more
    nurturing than men. Therefore, the traditional view of the feminine. Gender role
    prescribes that women should behave in ways that are nurturing. One way that a
    woman might engage in the traditional feminine gender role would be to nurture
    her family by working full-time within the home rather than taking employment
    outside of the home.
    Men, on the other hand, are presumed by traditional views of gender roles to be
    leaders. The traditional view of the masculine gender role, therefore, suggests
    that men should be the heads of their households by providing financially for the
    family and making important family decisions.
    Application Activity 3.3
    Identify various gender roles found in your community.
    3.4. Gender stereotypes
    Learning Activity 3.4

    Observe the following picture, interpret and carry out a discussion

    about it in relation to consideration of women in Tradition Rwanda.

    Gender stereotypes are generalizations about what men and women are like and
    what they are capable of doing. Hence, there is typically a great deal of consensus
    about them. According to social role theory, gender stereotypes derive from the
    contrasting distribution of men and women into social roles both in the home
    and at work (Eagly, 1987, 1997;Koenig and Eagly, 2014). There has long been
    a gendered division of labor, and it has existed both in foraging societies and
    in more socioeconomically complex societies (Wood and Eagly, 2012.Gender
    stereotypes are used not only to characterize others but also to characterize
    oneself (Bem, 1974). The process of self-stereotyping can influence people’s
    identities in stereotype-congruent directions. Stereotyped characteristics can
    thereby be internalized and become part of a person’s gender identity – a critical
    aspect of the self-concept (Ruble and Martin, 1998;Wood and Eagly, 2015). Young
    boys and girls learn about gender stereotypes from their immediate environment
    and the media, and they learn how to behave in gender-appropriate ways (Deaux
    and LaFrance, 1998). These socialization experiences no doubt continue to exert
    influence later in life and, for this reason, the gender stereotypes tend to have
    a self-perpetuating quality. Gender stereotypes are over-generalisations about
    the characteristics of an entire group based on gender. A man might say women
    aren’t meant for combat, while a woman might say men do nothing but watch

    sports.

    Stereotypes are not always necessarily true because they come from making
    general conclusions about a group of people based on mere assumptions.
    These general conclusions cannot be true for all people because individuals
    have different desires, feelings and thoughts. Both the female gender and the
    male gender have been stereotyped in the society.
    The following are examples of gender stereotypes:
    a) Women are rational beings.
    b) Men are tough and protective.
    c) Women make good secretaries and teacher
    They are also viewed as fragile and emotional, caring and more appropriate for
    jobs like nursing.
    These stereotypes begin right from childhood once the sex of a child is known.
    The newborn is welcomed in a very stereotyped setting that’s decorated with
    items suggesting how he/she ought to grow. Girls are made to love dolls and
    take care of them as women take care of children while boys are bought car toys
    and video games. While growing, they are assigned roles in the same way. Boys
    can watch TV while girls do all the cleaning and cooking, unless there is a fence
    to trim.
    Boys are also encouraged to do outdoor sports such as bicycle riding and hiking.

    These stereotypes grow with children and are passed on to generations.

    Application activity 3.4
    Identify various gender roles and gender stereotypes in your
    community.
    3.5. Impact of gender stereotypes on individuals, families and
    society
    Learning activity 3.5

    Identify gender issues that you know in your community

    Gender stereotypes portray teaching or serving in a hotel as female careers
    while higher medical professions are perceived to be male careers. From the
    discussion above, however, you realize that none of these careers belong only
    to men or women. Holding on to these beliefs has very negative impacts on
    individuals, families and the society at large. For example, the assumption that
    women are more emotional than rational is demeaning to the female gender and
    makes them look inferior to the male gender. This can lead to disrespect in the
    family and consequently break the harmony that should be in a family.
    The following are the effects of gender stereotypes on individuals, family
    and society:

    a) It can cause psychological distress to an individual. For example, where
    a boy is told that he should not cry in public, he is likely to suppress his
    emotions to prove his masculinity yet undergo a lot of emotional suffering.
    b) It can easily reduce an individual’s self-esteem. When women are viewed as
    passive members of the family who must always be submissive and have
    no place in decision-making, their sense of value is ideally diminished. They
    may end up feeling unwanted yet they are a central part of the society in real
    sense and can make great leaders.
    c) Stereotyping can prevent individuals from pursuing their dreams such as
    a person’s career of interest. This denies such a person the opportunity to
    live a fulfilling life. For example, a female student may have interest in a
    mechanical job, but the fear of not meeting the expectations of the society
    may hold her from pursuing her dream career hence not achieving her full
    potential.
    d) It can be used as a basis for discrimination. For example, this can happen in
    the family when sharing household chores. The girl child, for example, may
    be overwhelmed with responsibilities such as preparing meals, cleaning,
    laundry and buying grocery while her male siblings engage in fun activities.
    e) It can lead to subordination of one gender in society. For example, in the
    earlier days, women were not allowed to vote. This denied them of the right
    to elect leaders of their choice.
    f) It can bring confusion and disagreement in the family about whose
    responsibility it is to provide for the family. Though any member of the
    family can be the breadwinner depending on the situation, stereotyping that
    presumes that the man should fend for the family can be detrimental when
    the man in the family is not able to earn for one reason or another
    He may feel incapable of doing his duty even when he is not to blame. This can
    also have a negative impact on the family because the idea that a woman should
    not fend for the family is a hindrance to improving the living standards of the family

    as the income comes from one source

    Application 3.5
    Explain the impact of gender stereotypes on individuals, families and
    society.
    3.6. End Unit Assessment
    End unit assessment

    1. Explain why it is important for the government to promote gender
    equality.
    2. Evaluate the benefits of gender equality and complementarity.

    3. Discuss the of gender stereotypes on a society in general.

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